Want to See Your Fitness Goals Come to Life?
– Train Your Brain Before the Body
Despite massive government, medical and individual efforts to win the war on obesity, more than 71 percent of Americans are overweight based on the clinical definition. The average adult is 25 pounds heavier today than in 1960. Moreover, our growing mass and expanding scales add as much as US$200 billion per year to our national health care expenses as a nation, which amounts to an extreme health crisis.
Modern drug research has yet to invent a pill that allows us to lose weight and keep it off, nor will one single pill ever do so without cooperation from us to add nutrition, activity and supplement support to help us help ourselves first. Traditional approaches such as diet and exercise do work but most of us almost inevitably regain the weight because we don’t have a system, a routine and the discipline to use moderation, routine and limits where necessary to maintain an equilibrium and balance in health and wellness.
If there is ever to be a “pill” – a solution to weight – it will be changing the brain, particularly the primitive areas of the brain, the “emotional brain” or mammalian and reptilian brain as it is our behavior that drives our end result in terms of whether we stay fit, focused and healthy, or fat, fatigued and frustrated. These emotional brain circuits that control stress and our stress-fueled emotions, thoughts and behaviors are central in achieving the results we desire – and in the end, it’s simply about the choices we make that determines our health and fitness success. These circuits can be rewired in humans by changing the way we think, feel and act. We can address the root cause of stress-related problems, including obesity if we understand how to implement the balanced approach required to achieve the results desired. Though some believe that being overweight and obese are caused solely by genetic make-up, more and more research is indicating that this is only a minor contributor – and as it turns out, stress and our thinking and beliefs play a bigger role in weight gain that was ever thought possible. As thinking, beliefs and emotions lead to poor behaviors and choices – for example many under stress turn to food for comfort due to emotional triggers to reset emotions.
Scientists are now working to develop a neuroscience-based approach to manage weight control and fitness, as a means of addressing the common excesses that tempt us, through emotional brain training. What scientists are realizing through cutting edge neuroscience-based research is that to change the brain we must change subconscious beliefs, behaviors, habits and patterns that we’ve learned from years of social conditioning and influence.. The new science is beginning to reveal many key distinctions and new cutting-edge advances in managing the mind to then manage our physical bodies through cognition.
The emotional cognitive brain is the command center for weight and common behavioral excesses. This includes the management of fear, reward and starvation centers. When that brain is in stress, these three behavioral command centers promote overeating and weight gain during periods when we’re inactive and consuming more calories (energy) than we’re burning. We all have strong drives when the emotions are activated behaviorally and we do exactly what we shouldn’t do, even knowing that its wrong. When our emotional brain is in stress, even in children, it makes decisions without us even knowing why or that we’re even doing it! These psychological cues create stress triggers that amplify the reward value of food, and it increases hunger for carbs and decreases our metabolic rate, almost ensuring weight gain as in that moment, eating takes priority over all possible options of activities and priorities. This stress-obesity link has been well-documented. Our neocortex, which is the thinking brain is temporarily neutralized, and our emotional brain begins to call the shots.
Take Care of your Body to Care for Your Brain
The first step in taking control of our fat to muscle ratio and weight in general is to de-stress the emotional brain. In the science of emotional brain training (EBT), we trigger the release of stress by checking in on our thinking and emotions several times throughout the day, identifying our level of stress and using the guided technique for that stress level to “elevate” to a new state of well-being. In the new science, there are five levels of stress and five tools. To get an idea of how to use these tools and to understand how they work, take a deep breath, look within yourself and then with patience and introspective, identify your stress level.
Then use the tools for that level of stress to reduce your stress rapidly.
- The Compassion Tool (Stress Level 1 – Very Low Stress)Say to yourself, “Feel compassion for myself,” then wait for a wave of compassion to flow through your body. Next say, “Feel compassion for others,” and feel a slight wave of warmth. Last, say, “Feel compassion for all living beings.”
- The Feelings Tool (Stress Level 2 – Low Stress)Ask yourself, “How do I feel?” Often, three feelings bubble up, but wait long enough so that one feeling is the strongest. That’s the one! Next ask yourself, “What do I need?” and, finally, “Do I need support?”
- The Flow Tool (Stress Level 3 – A Little Stress)Say the words: “I feel angry that …” and watch what words arrive in your mind to complete the sentence. State the sentence again, for seven more feelings: sad, afraid, guilty, grateful, happy, secure and proud. Notice the glow in your body and how your stress is gone. Why? When we feel our negative feelings, they fade. We are no longer in peril and the brain naturally focuses on positive feelings that give us the energy to move forward and do good things in our life.
- The Cycle Tool (Stress Level 4 – High Stress)Start by stating what is bothering you (don’t hold back!), then protest that stress by saying “I feel angry that … I can’t stand it that … I hate it that … .” and each time watch what words arrive in your mind. This can unlock the circuit so that you can change at a deeper level. Pause and take a few deep breaths, then say the words: “I feel sad that … I feel afraid that … I feel guilty that …” and watch what words arrive in your mind to complete each sentence.
Next support yourself, and say, “OF COURSE I could do that (such as overeat) because my unreasonable expectation is … ” and again wait for words to bubble up from your unconscious mind, such as: “I get my safety from overeating.” That’s just an old glitch of a memory that needs updating. So, update it! Say the opposite expectation (such as “I cannot get my safety from food … I can get my safety from connecting to myself”). As you stated this when the circuit was freshly unlocked, the circuit can change into the expectation of your choosing. As the new expectation becomes dominant, the emotional drives for various excesses (including food) can begin to fade so that changing behavior becomes easier.
- The Damage Control Tool (Stress Level 5 – Very High Stress)When we’re that stressed, we need to be held and comforted. Sometimes just rocking in your chair or breathing deeply helps. Also, you can say calming words repeatedly: ….Do not judge. Minimize harm. Know it will pass. I know that , it’s just stress and it will fade.
It’s Important to Understand that Survival Circuits Activate Strong Emotional Motivations to Overeat –
When you’ve successfully released stress from your emotional brain, chances are you’ll notice that you occasionally trigger stress from time to time. You may also blame yourself for the late-night ice cream binge or the mindless eating of an entire bag of chips. Understand that this is a survival circuit. Our brains are encoded to cognitively respond based on learned patterns and behaviors, and when we stress – we reach for food to settle our minds and emotions. Overtime, we condition the brain to remember that food “saved us” from the stress we feel (keep in mind that we also ultimately manufacture the stress as well based on our chosen response to the external environment), so it encodes an expectation, such as “I stress, I get safety from eating food.” The real trouble is that this circuit can be replayed for a lifetime, fueling automated conditional and behavioral eating as a coping mechanism unless we deliberately find the means to break the pattern. Research now shows that our survival circuits in the brain can be rewired and we do that in the EBT process. In fact, we can only make the changes and rewire these circuits when we’re in a stressful state – much like not being able to turn a steering wheel in a car when the car is started. Only then can we unlock the circuit and make change permanent. When we’re stressed and crave food to cope or self-sooth, the EBT subscriber reaches for the tool rather than food and deploys the tool to stop the craving and to begin the process to permanently change that circuit. Slowly and overtime, the temptation to overeat fades.
The last step: Keeping the weight off
Keeping weight off is hard but it may be easier if we improve the brain’s emotional setpoint. Often a setpoint in stress is encoded from adverse experiences early in life and causes chronic stress overload in the emotional brain, a set up for weight regain. The solution is to move up the emotional setpoint, so we get the emotional brain out of chronic stress, which is why the EBT program is aimed at raising the setpoint, so participants are more resilient to new stresses, less likely to regain the weight they have lost and, most of all, to experience more joy in their daily lives.
What fears are holding you back from your ideal fitness and health and wellness goals?
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